Tuesday, March 03, 2009

Today is a day of quiet celebration. Today, March 3, 2009, I celebrate a year milestone. It's been a solid year since my full hysterectomy and 4.5 pound tumor removal. And I am alive, well, full of love for me so deeply, that now, relationships don't have that desparate sensation any longer. I no longer desire to be in a relationship, with two adults and a child. Even via adoption, surrogacy, or anything. I'm okay being single, just like my Houston gal Beyonce sings. All the single ladies.....all the single ladies.....now put your hands up......

After years of weddings, baby showers, births, and what not, I am settling back into my single life. Yes, being gay is where I will forever be, with my long distance supporter from far away. She's the best thing that has ever happened to me, and there are others. But she's my world. So is my DID insider, and our inside daughter, and my entire Posse from the land of DID....all 18 of them bring me joy....self love, self acceptance, because they are all parts of me.

Here's to surviving another day, dear Posse....and I can hear the two ER doctors saying back.....congratulations on surviving your first full year of menopause post hysterectomy surgery kiddo. We love you too.

xoxoxo---Me N' The Posse of 18.

Monday, March 02, 2009

Life in the days of a writer.....whee! I coordinate 2 blogs now, and will hopefully begin a 3rd for CPN online. The Cerebral Palsy Network and other sites coordinated to aid my populations, are worth getting into. So, we'll see what happens if I get chosen to man the blog. March is here. Friday I have lunch with my twin friends, two ladies I have known forever, 10+ years. Then, March 16 is a double dose of fun. Another long time college friend of 10+ years, is coming back to his Houston office for work and dinner with me. Sushi, Japanese tea, and more......and before we meet, Portia De Rossi is going to be on her wife's talk show....should be fun. Portia has been a cool actor lately. Ally Mc Beal, and now, Better Off Ted. Not to mention her life with new wife Ellen De Generes. Ah....in the comfort of my comfort zone.....they are proof that we GLBT folks can live well, no matter what and still love each other and life itself. Whee!