Today is a day of quiet celebration. Today, March 3, 2009, I celebrate a year milestone. It's been a solid year since my full hysterectomy and 4.5 pound tumor removal. And I am alive, well, full of love for me so deeply, that now, relationships don't have that desparate sensation any longer. I no longer desire to be in a relationship, with two adults and a child. Even via adoption, surrogacy, or anything. I'm okay being single, just like my Houston gal Beyonce sings. All the single ladies.....all the single ladies.....now put your hands up......

After years of weddings, baby showers, births, and what not, I am settling back into my single life. Yes, being gay is where I will forever be, with my long distance supporter from far away. She's the best thing that has ever happened to me, and there are others. But she's my world. So is my DID insider, and our inside daughter, and my entire Posse from the land of DID....all 18 of them bring me joy....self love, self acceptance, because they are all parts of me.

Here's to surviving another day, dear Posse....and I can hear the two ER doctors saying back.....congratulations on surviving your first full year of menopause post hysterectomy surgery kiddo. We love you too.

xoxoxo---Me N' The Posse of 18.